Author: Dick Scott
I think it´s about time to write about the best ways to get her back because that is the name of my blog. Firstly and foremost this is of course applicable if you want her or him back.
So we assume you have separated and afterwards you start to feel really heart broken. Some time has passed so you have came through the worst pain in the separation process but still you have a strong feeling of that it´s a mistake to separate instead of solving the problems together.
I have three considerations and solutions that has been proved to be effective in the process of mending a broken heart and get back together again.
1. Be very clear and honest with yourself and your own feelings if this longing to be together again come from a sincere wish and not from some old sentimental memories.What do i mean by that? I mean that when we are heart broken and down we have a tendency to cling on to anything even if it´s not realistic. That is why i think it is of great importance to not rush back into something and then feel even worse next time he or she leave you, which infact will happen if your together on the wrong premise. But if enough time has passed and you still got a strong feeling of love to your ex you should consider to get back together again.
2. Decide to get down to the bottom with the reasons to your separation. If you leave those problems unsolved they will come back one way or the other. There may be one way to get around these problems and that is to really forgive each other for what has been devastating in your relationship. It is also important that each one of you take full responsibility for your part in the process and dont put the blame on someone else. If that forgiveness also contains to really forget and let go of former disagreements it would work.
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3. Dont let other people, friends and family decide for you in any way. No matter what you have been through together, if you decide to give it another chance it has to be solely your own decision. You cant let others opinion affect you in any way. Many of us cant separate others expectations on us from our own will. For example could your relatives hate your ex for what has happened and would never understand why and how you still love her. Remember that what your heart tells you is the truth and what others tell you is their opinion. It could also be that opposite way that everyone around you tell you what a wonderful person your ex was but noone has experienced what you did; never go back solely based on others opinion.
In closing i hope these three statements regarding the best ways to get her back will help you to sort out your own feelings so you can make the right decision. If that desicion is that you really still feel love then go for it with all of your heart and you will have a good chance to be happy together again.
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