onsdag 29 april 2015

The three best ways to get her back

Best Ways To Get Her Back
Author: Dick Scott

I think it´s about time to write about the best ways to get her back because that is the name of my blog. Firstly and foremost this is of course applicable if you want her or him back.
So we assume you have separated and afterwards you start to feel really heart broken. Some time has passed so you have came through the worst pain in the separation process but still you have a strong feeling of that it´s a mistake to separate instead of solving the problems together.

I have three considerations and solutions that has been proved to be effective in the process of mending a broken heart and get back together again.


1. Be very clear and honest with yourself and your own feelings if this longing to be together again come from a sincere wish and not from some old sentimental memories.What do i mean by that? I mean that when we are heart broken and down we have a tendency to cling on to anything even if it´s not realistic. That is why i think it is of great importance to not rush back into something and then feel even worse next time he or she leave you, which infact will happen if your together on the wrong premise. But if enough time has passed and you still got a strong feeling of love to your ex you should consider to get back together again.

2. Decide to get down to the bottom with the reasons to your separation. If you leave those problems unsolved they will come back one way or the other. There may be one way to get around these problems and that is to really forgive each other for what has been devastating in your relationship. It is also important that each one of you take full responsibility for your part in the process and dont put the blame on someone else. If that forgiveness also contains to really forget and let go of former disagreements it would work.

Best ways to get her back

3. Dont let other people, friends and family decide for you in any way. No matter what you have been through together, if you decide to give it another chance it has to be solely your own decision. You cant let others opinion affect you in any way. Many of us cant separate others expectations on us from our own will. For example could your relatives hate your ex for what has happened and would never understand why and how you still love her. Remember that what your heart tells you is the truth and what others tell you is their opinion. It could also be that opposite way that everyone around you tell you what a wonderful person your ex was but noone has experienced what you did; never go back solely based on others opinion.

In closing i hope these three statements regarding the best ways to get her back will help you to sort out your own feelings so you can make the right decision. If that desicion is that you really still feel love then go for it with all of your heart and you will have a good chance to be happy together again.

Thanx for reading! more articles will follow....








lördag 18 april 2015

Keeping A Positive Outlook During Divorce

Keeping A Positive Outlook During Divorce
by Leeanne Kunnert

Men going through the divorce process, especially when children are involved, are clearly at a disadvantage. Women have been favored and continue to be throughout divorce proceedings. Society likes to view women as victims while acting like all men are scoundrels. The problem with this is that in order for a marriage to fail both parties are accountable. No one is without fault in a divorce.


Lots of men are stigmatized by the image of men in our culture being the bread winners for so long. Even though this image is no longer representative of the society we live in today it is still an issue that is facing men in divorce. Financially men are seen as the provider leaving them with the financial burden in divorce. This is a troubling matter especially with the role reversal that is common in today's homes. More men are staying home while their wives return to work. An even more common element in homes today is the presence of two working parents. Divorce is never clear cut.

If you are a man going through a divorce it is important that you keep your head up and don't allow yourself to get depressed. Feeling low about yourself only leads you into a situation where you are more easily taken advantage of. Keeping a positive outlook on life and a positive frame of mind allows you to focus on a better outcome to your divorce. Keep disagreements with your spouse to a minimum. This will help eliminate any more bad blood while allowing you to focus on your new optimistic approach to your life after divorce.

While you are moving through your divorce keep an eye on all assets and liabilities. Keep track of money that is being spent on credit cards and withdrawn from joint bank accounts. Your wives divorce attorney will tell her to do the same. This is not meant to be sneaky but to prevent you from being responsible for joint debt that occurs while you are in the process of divorcing. At the end of the divorce you want to remain financially stable. This will not be possible if joint accounts are wiped out and credit card debt is racked up during the dissolution of your marriage.

If you have been the stay at home care provider it is important that you determine what means you have to get back into the work force. The same should be true for your spouse as well if she has taken on the role as in home care provider to your family. Both parties should be financially responsible for bringing in a source of income after the divorce. Don't rely on financial support from your significant other especially if you are a man. Getting spousal support is fairly uncommon for men in today's society.

Getting a divorce is not easy. When going through a divorce seek support from friends as well as from an attorney that specializes in men's divorce. Keep the future in your sites, keep a positive outlook, maintain your finances and work on moving forward.

More Information:

Longton DM, a subsidiary of Longton Law Offices is a divorce attorney specializing in Men/Dad's in divorce. For experienced representation throughout the divorce process in Trenton, Michigan and the surrounding area you can find more information at http://www.michigandivorcelawyerfordad.com.

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