fredag 27 september 2013

Dating Again After Divorce

Re-entering the dating arena following a divorce isn’t always easy. Depending on what sort of divorce you had, you may have lots of trust issues and a myriad of other doubts and fears when it comes to actually going out with someone else. It can be scary but it doesn’t have to be a disaster. All you have to do is use a bit of common sense and listen to your intuition regarding potential dating partners and you should be fine. Of course, that’s very simplistic, but it’s the root of your new dating success.
To begin with, ask yourself honestly if you’re truly ready to start dating again. If you feel the answer is yes, you’ll want to decide ahead of time what you’re looking for overall. Do you want to just have some fun or do you want a long term relationship? It’s important that you know this well ahead of time. Then, the next thing you need to do is share your story with the person you’re going out with. Don’t lie about your divorce and don’t avoid talking about your past. But you also don’t want to hog the conversation with all the bad things that have happened to you.

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Work on your confidence level. If you’re dating for fun, make sure your date understands this. Don’t allow yourself to become too attached to another person too quickly. Instead, just be yourself. If the date goes south, don’t let it be the end of the world. Simply move ahead and try again. Lots of divorced people take rejection badly, particularly if their marriage ended because they were cheated on. You must learn not to take things too personally. Let your date see that you’re a confident person.
Be picky when you’re choosing a date. This is quite important because your dating partner needs to fit in with your personal life goals. If you want to begin a new relationship, you should be sure that you’re going out with someone that fits well with what you want in a partner. Avoid starting a serious relationship with anyone that you’re not completely interested in or someone that simply doesn’t fit in with the goals you have for your future. Don’t make the same mistakes you made with your ex. You need to be more particular this time around.
Choose your next dating partner carefully. It’s usually a bad idea to try to seriously date someone that you were involved with while your divorce was going on. You might be certain that this is the perfect partner for you, but if they were drawn to you because you were initially unavailable, you may find yourself in an unpleasant situation in the future with this person as they may cheat on you. Just take your time when you’re seriously looking for someone that you can rebuild your life with.
There is life and romance after divorce. You just need to be serious about getting out there and finding it.
Ps. after a BREAK UP or 
DIVORCE…or in the middle of a separation.
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