söndag 29 september 2013

A New Age In Dating

Dating is one of those things that everyone has done at one time or another. Back in the days of high school, dating was considered fun and exciting to all. But those days came to an end once you got married and grew up a bit.

Now that you have divorced and you are tired of living on your own, you might want to consider dating again. So, how does an adult, who has been married for almost 20 years, go about dating in this day and age? Some things have changed greatly since those early days of a movie and popcorn date.

The first thing you are going to notice is technology has taken over the clubs, bars, and fairs that people used to go to in order to find a date in the first place. Facebook and various other social networking sites have pretty much taken over that aspect. Don’t forget about all those dating sites that you see commercials for on your television, either. Computers and dating are starting to go together like sugar and coffee these days and, because of that, you are going to have to change your game up a little bit.

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It is really difficult to convey emotion when you are typing to someone on a computer. Remember that when you are saying things through an instant message or email, you are going to have to be fairly specific so you don't end up scaring that potential date off. What might be a funny opening line in real person, where they can see the smile on your face and the hint of sarcasm in your words might just end up offending someone who is simply reading it online. Always take that into consideration when you are trying to find a date through a social networking or online dating site.

You should also be aware that the person you are talking to may not be the person they are portraying themselves to be. There have been numerous accounts of guys acting like women and vice versa just to start up a conversation with someone as a joke. You might also find that the strapping quarterback or energetic cheerleader turns out to be a 350 pound man named Judd that lives in a trailer behind his mother’s house. Make sure they send you a picture with a hand written note to you with your name on it to be sure.

Dating in this type of a technological age is something that a lot of teenagers have no issues with, but anyone that has been married since the advent of the home computer, can remember what a modem sounded like while connecting to AOL, and loves the old drive-in movies might have a difficult time adjusting with how things are done these days. Don’t worry, though. If you are lucky, the person you are looking to date will feel the same way you do and that will just give you something to talk about while you are waiting for your movie to download onto your phones.

fredag 27 september 2013

Dating Again After Divorce

Re-entering the dating arena following a divorce isn’t always easy. Depending on what sort of divorce you had, you may have lots of trust issues and a myriad of other doubts and fears when it comes to actually going out with someone else. It can be scary but it doesn’t have to be a disaster. All you have to do is use a bit of common sense and listen to your intuition regarding potential dating partners and you should be fine. Of course, that’s very simplistic, but it’s the root of your new dating success.
To begin with, ask yourself honestly if you’re truly ready to start dating again. If you feel the answer is yes, you’ll want to decide ahead of time what you’re looking for overall. Do you want to just have some fun or do you want a long term relationship? It’s important that you know this well ahead of time. Then, the next thing you need to do is share your story with the person you’re going out with. Don’t lie about your divorce and don’t avoid talking about your past. But you also don’t want to hog the conversation with all the bad things that have happened to you.

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Work on your confidence level. If you’re dating for fun, make sure your date understands this. Don’t allow yourself to become too attached to another person too quickly. Instead, just be yourself. If the date goes south, don’t let it be the end of the world. Simply move ahead and try again. Lots of divorced people take rejection badly, particularly if their marriage ended because they were cheated on. You must learn not to take things too personally. Let your date see that you’re a confident person.
Be picky when you’re choosing a date. This is quite important because your dating partner needs to fit in with your personal life goals. If you want to begin a new relationship, you should be sure that you’re going out with someone that fits well with what you want in a partner. Avoid starting a serious relationship with anyone that you’re not completely interested in or someone that simply doesn’t fit in with the goals you have for your future. Don’t make the same mistakes you made with your ex. You need to be more particular this time around.
Choose your next dating partner carefully. It’s usually a bad idea to try to seriously date someone that you were involved with while your divorce was going on. You might be certain that this is the perfect partner for you, but if they were drawn to you because you were initially unavailable, you may find yourself in an unpleasant situation in the future with this person as they may cheat on you. Just take your time when you’re seriously looking for someone that you can rebuild your life with.
There is life and romance after divorce. You just need to be serious about getting out there and finding it.
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onsdag 25 september 2013

Last article in the series Its In The Stars

Sagittarius

A Sagittarius is the sign of the archer.  They are born between November 22 and December 21.

The Sagittarius man responds to women who have energy and sex appeal.  You should let him discover you rather than pursuing him yourself.  He’ll want to follow and surprise you, so let him.

When conversing with the Sagittarius man, listen to him.  Ask good questions but don’t talk a lot yourself.  Praise him at every opportunity.

Friendships are important to the Sagittarius man.  He’ll have a wide variety of friends and he’ll expect you to accept them all.  The quickest way to destroy a romantic relationship with a Sagittarius man is to come between him and his friends.

Mr. Sagittarius is a big dreamer and he’ll need you to help him make his dreams come true.  He has enormous potential, but it often goes unfulfilled.  Much of this has to do with his happy go lucky attitude toward life.  A woman who can help him reach his dreams is the best match for the Sagittarius man.


He is a bold, passionate lover.  Your sex life will rarely fall into a routine.  However, you should know that he tends to have an urge to move on to the unconquered woman because of this part of his sex drive.

He is quite interested in anything having to do with nature.  He also likes to travel.  So, don’t be surprised when he suggests an active weekend trip like White Water rafting.

His best academic subjects tended to be philosophy and science.  Sagittarius’ make excellent teachers because they are analytic and passionate about their academic subjects.

The Sagittarius man tends to marry later in life than men from the other zodiac signs.  It takes him longer to sow his oats and settle down.  Many don’t marry before age 40.

Aquarius

An Aquarius is the sign of the water bearer.  They are born between December 22 and January 21.

The Aquarius man is ruled by water.  He tends to drift through life shifting whenever he encounters an obstacle. 

He’s not particularly good at courting a woman.  Often, the woman who lands the Aquarius man is the pursuer and not the other way around.  He doesn’t tend to be the romantic that many other star signs are.

He’ll see his partner more as a friend than great lover.  He doesn’t show a lot of emotion – particularly as it relates to romantic love.

He loves parties and makes a great impression on everyone.  He’s fun to be with in public, but more frustrating in private.

He has high ideals and sets great store in truth.  If you lie to him, you will undercut his confidence in you.  However, Mr. Aquarius is a game player and he expects you to play games with him as well.

One thing that will surely set him off is if you gossip about him to others.  He puts great store in his public perception and if you do anything to undercut this, you are history.

He has a wide variety of friends which he has picked up through his travels in life and it will be important to him that you like them too.

Aquarius men are the most likely to stay single for the rest of their lives.  They are fiery, intense and changeable and, many women have found, un-tamable.

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Pieces

A Pieces is the sign of the Fish.  They are born between January 22 and February 21.

A Pieces man can be difficult to pin down as his true feelings remain hidden.  He is notorious for choosing a woman who is all wrong for him.  Part of this is because he doesn’t choose his girlfriends consciously, they sort of “come into his life.”

His greatest need is for a strong woman to guide him.  He has a visible need for nurturing.  You will find that you need to constantly reassure him and constantly demonstrate your affection through words, touch and small gifts.

Mr. Pieces is Mr. Mysterious.  Nothing is ever cut and dried with him.  He is difficult to pin down.  His need for secrecy is initially quite appealing to a woman, but it becomes frustrating over time as she realizes she can never pierce his veil.  Therefore, he needs a very patient woman.

He doesn’t fight fair.  In fact, he won’t win through fighting.  You’ll think you’ve won an argument only to later find out that you weren’t in agreement at all.

You shouldn’t expect true answers to precise questions with a Pieces man.  Additionally, he isn’t above exploiting the tender side of his nature.

He has strong emotions and tends to live in an Ivory tower.  He’ll need space of his own.  He is also honest about emotional needs

Once he has found love, he doesn’t ever want to let go.  He makes a fantastic husband for the right woman.

If you are dating an Aquarius man, you will find yourself in a romantic, sensuous and passionate relationship.


Conclusion

“What’s Your Sign?” is actually a good question to ask when meeting a man for the first time.  You can tell an awful lot about what the potential course of a relationship might look like when you determine the answer to this one question. 

Are you looking for a man to shape your life (try a Scorpio) or a man’s life to shape (try an Aquarius)?  If you are looking to settle down and raise a life partner at this point in your life, you may find the most promise in a Taurus.

You should keep in mind that your sign has a lot to do with the success of a relationship as well.  For instance, if you are a Gemini, you will probably find a great deal of happiness with another Gemini while a typical Scorpio will make your life miserable.

Also keep in mind that astrology is more complicated than sun signs.  Your rising signs and the positions of the planets can be every bit as important in determining your personality.

However, very few people know what house Venus was in when they were born.  They do, however, know their sun sign.  This is a good place to start when determining a love match.

If you do get serious with someone and want to know what the stars have in store for you, it might be worth your while to have your full charts read together by a professional astrologer.

tisdag 24 september 2013

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Leo

Leo is the Lion.  They are born between July 22 and August 21.

Leo men have a genuine zest for life.  He attracts women in hoards with his exuberance and confidence.  He has a reputation for breaking hearts.

But there is no lover more generous than the Leo.  He simply cannot live without love.

He expresses his strong feelings through romance.  He teases and tantalizes his lover.  He has a dramatic flair and sets the stage and the pace of the relationship accordingly.

He loves the grand and dramatic gesture in return.  He’ll take any excuse to celebrate. 

He is attracted to beautiful women and they to him.  Women literally fall at his feet.  His middle name is “Extravagance” and he likes to be surrounded by luxury.  He will also give over the top gifts – especially ones that make his woman look beautiful. 

He’ll expect you to give gifts as well.  If you can’t afford expensive, expend your energy on the thoughtful. 

Make him feel that he is the center of your world.  You won’t annoy him by calling him just to say “hi” several times a day.

He is also a possessive and jealous lover.  But, he will be faithful in turn. 

A Leo man always makes the rules.  He is best matched with a woman who is awed by him and will love him for his dramatic gifts.

Virgo

Virgo is the sign of the virgin and it is the only sign represented by a female.  They are born between August 22 and September 21.

A Virgo man is honest and trustworthy.  They like to be helpful, so if you have something wrong with your car or home, he’s eager to lend a hand.  He’s also practical in other ways.  For instance, he prefers the car he can afford to the fancy one out of reach.

He’s not the jealous type – but he won’t understand if you are either.  He tends to stay friends with his ex girlfriends, and you have to be okay with that. 

He doesn’t like to sit around.  He likes to be out doing things.  You may even consider him to be a social butterfly.  If you are planning a date with your Virgo man, make sure there is lots of activity.  He quickly becomes bored with mere conversation.

He doesn’t want you to drop your friends and build your life around him.  He wants his independence and expects you to maintain yours.

He’ll pay for your dinners and treat you well. 

He tends to be very cultured and will want high minded dates from time to time.  A Virgo man is the best bet for the Opera or Ballet.

Arguments with a Virgo man can be very tough as he gets defensive quickly.  He also is quick to criticize.

He’s not likely to shower you with gifts.  He’ll tend to ask you what you want for Christmas and then get it for you. 

A Virgo man tends to want to settle down in the suburbs and go into the city from time to time.  He’s a career man who wants to provide for his family.

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Libra Man

A Libra is the sign of the scales and balance.  They are born between September 22 and October 21.

A Libra man is extremely loving and needs to be loved in turn.  You should not refrain from showing and expressing your feelings. 

Libra men are ruled by Venus which is the planet of love.  Some believe Libra men are the most proficient lovers of all.  They worship romance and seduction.  

He will adore love, beauty, romance, and dance. 

He needs someone who will give him feedback and support.  Words of affirmation are key to lubricating the relationship.  You should help him to think less and feel more.

His lower back and buttocks are his erogenous areas. 

He loves to be seduced.  Appeal to his senses.  Invite him to a private dinner.  Play good music, light scented candles, and serve a good Champaign. 

If you are dating a Libra man, flatter him.  Pay special attention to what he is wearing and complement him on it. 

Libras are peerless dancers.  He prefers classical dance to the latest moves.  Dancing is one way of showing his sensual side.  He will be very unhappy if he has to sit on the sidelines too long.

You shouldn’t swear or do anything crude around your Libra man as they tend to be turned off by any kind of vulgarity.  Similarly, stay away from violent or sudden outbursts.  Also, it pays to be neat around a Libra man as they are fastidious themselves.

Scorpio

A Scorpio is the sign of the Scorpion.  They are born between October 22 and November 21.

Scorpio is perhaps the sexiest sign of the zodiac.  When many women fantasize about their dream man, they are dreaming up a classic Scorpio.  He is full of passion and power which is an aphrodisiac to many women.

Your Scorpio man will have strong thoughts and opinions and expect you to defer to them.  While he is quite emotional and sensitive, this part of him is hidden beneath the exterior.

He’ll be very devoted to you.  But, sometimes he’ll waver between intense desire for you and wanting to tune you out. 

Don’t try to compete with a Scorpio man.  He always needs to have the upper hand. 
Also, he is not very good at compromising.  A Scorpio man is happiest with a supportive, adoring woman.

You should never lie to your Scorpio man.  He will never forget and never forgive you if you do.

You should know that things are not always as they appear with a Scorpio man.  He is secretive and will never share the deepest recess of himself with anyone – including you.  He has an enormous amount of self control.

Scorpio men tend to be powerful businessmen.  They like to have attractive escorts.  However, a self absorbed woman does not do well with a Scorpio man over the long run as he needs the attention to be on himself.

måndag 23 september 2013

Article 2-3 In a Series of Articles on Its In The Stars

Taurus

Taurus is the sign of the bull.  They are born between April 22 and May 21.

There are many advantages of dating a Taurus man.  They are reliable and even tempered.  Relationships are very important to them. He longs to settle down and can love passionately for a lifetime.  A Taurus man, while not extravagant, will always be a steady provider.

Taurus men are sensual.  Because his senses are keen, try to appeal to him with pleasant and erotic tastes, touches, and scents.  Caress his head or neck at every opportunity.  Take care of your own skin and wear luxurious fabrics, as he will love to touch you. 

Always keep the atmosphere romantic and comfortable.  You should dim the lights, play good music, and serve refined drinks.  He likes the finer things in life.  Take him to Art Galleries and classical music concerts.  He likes to eat at Gourmet restaurants as well.

Taurus males are jealous by nature, so stay away from talk of boyfriends past.  Also, you should avoid flirting with the other men in the room as this will make your guy sulk.  You should never give him a reason to question your loyalty.

While Taurus males like to give, they don’t like to feel that it is expected of them.  It is a turn off for a woman to discuss gifts she would like to receive.  He tends to have a frugal nature in general.  When he does give a gift, he expects that his woman will appreciate it. 

Taurus men need partners with strong sexuality.  They will expect a woman to be able to keep up with them in bed and quickly become bored with a woman who isn’t responsive to the physical expression of their love.

If you play “availability” games with a Taurus male, he may very well decide you are not available and drop you before you can drop him.

Taurus men have an unusually high need for security.  He likes a routine and tends to be less flexible than men of other zodiac signs.  You shouldn’t expect him to drop everything and go on a wild zany escapade with you.

Unless you are just in it for the fling, avoid getting involved with a married Taurus man because he won’t divorce his wife, no matter how appealing you are.

Being involved with a married man usually means it will effect not only his wife but also his children. When there are children, especially young ones, the damage that can be done to them is beyond what most adults can even imagine.

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Gemini

Gemini are the Twins.  They are born between May 22 and June 21.

Many women find themselves drawn to the creative, dynamic Gemini man. Gemini men are often in highly visible career positions and have women basking in their glory.  If you want to attract one, you have to appeal to their strong and charming personalities and be prepared to compete with a wide variety of other women.

They tend to know everything and are especially up to date on current events.  He’ll want to talk about what’s going on in the world, so you need to be up to date with the news as well.

Unlike the Taurus man, Mr. Gemini is extremely spontaneous.  He’ll want to go on an adventure with no advance warning.  If you come up with fun and original date ideas, he’ll adore you for it.  You should be up for and ready for anything when you date a Gemini male.

An insider’s tip for dating a Gemini is that they love to receive handwritten love letters.. Their ruling planet is Mercury which is the planet of communication.  They love the written word and appreciate women who can communicate.

First impressions are very important to Gemini’s in general and the Gemini male is especially impressed with women who dress well.  You don’t have to be the epitome of current fashion trends though.  A bold fashion statement of your own may be even more appealing to him.

A Gemini lives for the moment and lets the future take care of itself.  You may have more trouble getting him to commit than you would men of other star signs. 

Cancer

Cancer is the sign of the Crab.  They are born between June 22 and July 21.

A Cancer man won’t fall head over heals in love with you at first glance.  He’ll take his time and get to know you before making any kind of commitment.  You don’t want to rush him in any way.

Don’t touch him first.  Let him lead on the physical plane.  You might feel rejected if you are too physically forward, but his brush offs shouldn’t be misinterpreted.  He is simply taking his time.

But, once you have gotten past his defenses, he will be wonderfully demonstrative and sensitive.  At this point, everything he craves for, senses or feels will be thrown into the relationship.

You have to be both patient and determined if you want to woo a Cancer man.  Expect a relationship that develops slowly but is there for the long haul rather than a quick, unimportant fling.

He is fascinated by historic buildings and the art of the old Masters.  He is more interested in a romantic, out of the way café than the hottest restaurant with the “in” chef.

The Cancer man is the Zodiac man most likely to like long walks on the beach by moonlight. 

While it does take him a while to commit, once he does it is for real.  Once he feels secure in love, the deepest desire of his heart is to sail into the sunset with his sweetheart.

fredag 20 september 2013

Article 1 In a Series of Articles on Its In The Stars

Introduction

“What’s your sign?” has been a pick up line since singles’ bars have been around.  In casual conversation, it provides a starting point for talk.  But, is there more to astrology when it comes to relationships? 

Astrology is much more complicated than simple sun signs.  Other planetary influences have a great deal to do with what makes up a person.

But star signs are the single most determinant facet of the astrological chart.  They paint, in broad strokes, a person’s personality.  They determine whether the person wants to chase or be chased, whether they will open their soul to you or keep it close to the vest.  You’ll find some star signs tend to like art museums while others like kayaking more.

If you are at a critical juncture at your life, you may find that a men of a certain sign might fit your current situation better than others.  If you are looking for a rebound relationship, an Aquarius man is just right for you, for instance.  But, that would be a bad choice if you are ready to settle down.

Keep in mind too that your sign is an important component to the relationship.  A Taurus woman is the perfect complement for some signs and toxic for others. 

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If you are looking for your perfect match, this guide will give you a broad outline of the kinds of men found under each star sign.

Aries

Aries is the sign of the Ram.  Aries are born between March 22 and April 21.

An Aries man believes in love at first sight.  Once he has his eyes on you, he will stop at nothing to get you.  The chase is part of the attraction, so don’t be too easy to get right away.  He loves what he can’t get.  He also loves to win and loves winners.  He is especially drawn to witty, independent women. 

The Aries man wants a woman to flatter his ego.  But, be careful not to overdo it as this can have the opposite effect of what you want. Try to always be dynamic and straightforward.

Once you’ve landed your Aries man, you will find that your relationship is an adventure.  One person described dating an Aries man as “playing bowling with grenades.” 

Aries men are very generous with their time and money.  This kind of generosity is rare these days.  You’ll probably never have to pick up a check when dating an Aries man.  You will also find yourself on the receiving end of many gifts.

When an Aries man loves you, he really loves you.  It’s not ambiguous.  It is a fierce and fiery hot passion. 

He will tend to be somewhat idealistic.  You may find him overly so at times.  He wants to be the Romeo to your Juliet which can make you exhausted.  He can become quite grumpy if he feels like you are not living up to his idealistic view of you.

Aries men tend to love their freedom.  They will also allow you to have yours.  Possessive women tend to have problems with Aries men.  But you don’t have to worry about his loyalty. 

To keep an Aries man, you have to be a constant challenge for him.  Don’t let him dominate you.  Give him the thrill of having to try all of the time.